For someone who is supposedly clever with words, even to the extent of making a living at it, I can’t adequately sum up today’s significant anniversary. I’ve been dreading it to be honest.
What I do want to do is give yet another insight into bereavement.
There comes a time, or times, when the overwhelming feeling is not your own grief or sorrow, but a sadness for all the occurrences and aspects of life that the deceased has not experienced and empathy for them.
I did allude to it here (The Goldilocks principle) and perhaps elsewhere, so it’s not a new feeling but it is the dominant one today.
Here is a highly-esoteric list of events that Juliet never saw:
2011
Release of final Harry Potter film
Fifty Shades of Grey series
Almost half of UK internet users are using mobile phones to do so
First hydrogen fuel filling station opened in Swindon
Shale gas discovered in Lancashire – fracking
Sir Paul McCartney married for the third time
2012
Olympic Games in London
Emergence of activities of Jimmy Savile, Rolf Harris, Gary Glitter and other childhood heroes
The Bond film Skyfall
2013
Legalisation of same-sex marriages
Death of Margaret Thatcher
Retirement of Sir Alex Ferguson from Manchester United
Andy Murray wins Wimbledon for the first time
Birth of George, future king
Crisis in Syria
2014
Rise of Islamic State / Isis
First gay weddings take place in England and Wales
Phone hacking trials of newspaper journalists
Simon runs the London Marathon
2015
End of Top Gear, as greatly enjoyed by our family
Murders of Charlie Hebdo cartoonists in Paris
Hatton Garden safe deposit burglary
Tories win the general election
Hawker Hunter air show crash at Shoreham
Jeremy Corbyn becomes Labour leader
The robin is declared the national bird of the UK
5p charge for plastic carrier bags in shops
Death of Cilla Black
Britain’s last deep coal mine closes
2016
Death of David Bowie
Last Land Rover Defender model built
End of the print versions of The Independent and Independent on Sunday newspapers
Lord Lucan officially declared dead
David Cameron announces referendum on membership of the European Union
Leicester City win the Premier League
Jo Cox MP is murdered in the street
UK votes to leave the European Union
Theresa May becomes Prime Minister, replacing David Cameron
Olympic Games in Brazil, Team GB are second in the medal table
Iceland knock England out of the UEFA Euros
2017
New 12-sided £1 coin
Britain goes a full day without using coal-generated electricity for the first time
Manchester Arena concert bomb
Grenfell Tower fire
Measles is eradicated in the UK
2018
Toys R Us goes into administration
Salisbury poisonings by Russian agents
Death of Stephen Hawking
First scheduled non-stop direct flight from Australia to the UK
Hottest ever London Marathon (I ran it)
Meghan Markle marries Prince Harry
Donald Trump becomes US President
The government announces that it will lower the screening age for bowel cancer in England from 60 to 50, to bring it into line with Scotland. Still too low.
Protest march by 700,000 people (including me) in London against the lies of Brexit
100th anniversary of the end of the First World War
Rise of Extinction Rebellion
Drones cause disruption over Gatwick Airport
2019
UK 5G mobile networks become operational, accompanied by conspiracy theories
Hottest UK day on record, 38.7 C in Cambridge
Theresa May resigns as Prime Minister, later replaced by Boris Johnson
Sainsbury’s stops selling fireworks in its stores
Mothercare goes into administration
The Tories win the general election again
2020
Early reports of coronavirus emanating from Wuhan, China, followed by first UK cases, followed by worldwide pandemic
1917 film
Sir Keir Starmer elected Labour party leader
UK leaves the European Union
HS2 rail link project given the go-ahead
Flybe airline goes into administration
COVID-19 pandemic in UK, with national lockdowns
British Airways retires its fleet of 747 jumbo jets
Sale of new petrol and diesel cars is brought forward to 2030 from 2040
2021
Vaccination of UK adults against coronavirus is rolled out
Death of the Duke of Edinburgh aged 99
Last high-street Debenhams store closes
England are the beaten finalists in the (delayed) 2020 UEFA Euros
Marriage of our eldest daughter